Don't ask. I think it must be a rites of passage for little girls.
At home. One week before she starts school. Where you kinda need it tied back. She had a beautiful haircut. I had a colour. While the hairdresser washed off my colour, she played 'hairdresser' with the scissors. Oh dear. Another few trims later and it's bearable. Can just scrape it into bunches with a few clips holding up the short bits. Could be worse!
Well you can hardly be annoyed at a 4 year old over their hair. What kind of message would that give. You are only pretty/beautiful/nice or mummy's only happy when you have a certain hairstyle? She seems to be pleased with herself anyway.
Notice the difference?